First off its been a long past couple days with the long weekend and all. I have lots to share but since I’m still waiting on my desktop I’ve been holding off on many posts because many include pictures including the pictures from our long trip.
and now on to the drama.
Parenting can be challenging especially when other children that are NOT yours are involved.
a couple days ago over the weekend actually another kid who i hear can be a handful.
I kept a pretty close eye on him as he went back and forth on his scooter and little man watched and tried to interact with him but this little kid kept racing by him.
then out of no where the little kid came over to me showing off his scooter and said ” sometimes i ride my bike and sometimes i ride this(scooter) but i don’t play with little kids like him bi***es(rhymes with witches)”
immediately i said “excuse me???? watch your mouth you don’t say those words around me or my kids and don’t worry he doesn’t have to play with you”
my hubs responded immediately not really knowing what was going on asking what was wrong and of course i explained and then my MIL came over also asking the little kid what had gone on and when i repeated the situation he broke out in full blow crying and so he was escorted over to his home.
I was livid even more so that i snapped but i didn’t regret it i just never wanted to be that parent.
my hubs was proud of me because normally i just let things be when it comes to me but this was my kid.
I almost felt it was some sort of bullying/ exclusion and altho i know this will happen again and i wont be able to come to the rescue i will teach my kids that its not ok to speak to someone that way and its not ok to make someone feel bad just because you want to.
in the end his mother walked him over couple hours later to apologize he said sorry and i said it was ok… but is it wrong for me to not want my kids to associate with this kid ever again?
parenting is not easy but no one messes with my kids.
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